Online dating is a job.
Let us do the work for you.
Date Automation
We work one-on-one with intelligent, successful people who want fulfilling dating lives, not dead-end, digital relationships.
You swipe. We handle the rest.
Date Coaching
Every week, you'll chat with an experienced date coach to learn tips and best-practices to increase satisfaction in your dating life.
Bring your A-game, every date.
Expert Advice
Our team has extensive experience coaching men and women 22-70. As an online service, we can work with clients in any timezone.
We're always here to help.
You'll be happy. 92% of clients renew after their first month.
You'll see results. 91% of clients go on their first automated date within one week of service.
You'll get experience. Active clients have up to 7 dates per week.
You'll save $$. Most other dating services are 3x what our clients pay.
"I HATED getting ghosted. With UpDate, all I do is swipe and then coaches talk and set dates for me."
"I used to be a nervous wreck before first dates. Now, I feel confident about the first date, every date."
"I will honestly never online date without UpDate."