Online dating is a job.

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Date Easier


We work one-on-one with intelligent, successful people who want  fulfilling dating lives, not dead-end, digital relationships.

You swipe. We tell you how to get on dates faster and easier.

Date Confidently


Every week, you'll chat with an experienced date coach to learn tips and best-practices to increase satisfaction in your dating life.

Bring your A-game, every date.

Date Anywhere

Our team has extensive experience coaching men and women 22-70. As an online service, we can work with clients in any timezone.


We're always here to help.

Why you'll love us

You'll be happy. 92% of clients renew after their first month.

You'll see results. 91% of clients go on their first date within two weeks of service.

You'll get experience. Active clients have up to 7 dates per week.

You'll save $$. Most other dating services are 3-5x what our clients pay.

"With Andrea's help, I was able to go on more dates in one month than I did in the last 12 combined."

"I used to be a nervous wreck before first dates. Now, I feel confident about the first date, every date."

"I will honestly never online date without UpDate."

Want to make sure we're awesome?

Contact us today to reserve a free 15-minute intro session.

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